Let’s Talk About Sex

I have a question for each of you. Why have sex? Do you do it out of obligation? As a part of your “wifely duty”? Do you perform because you know it’s expected? Do you have an off-the-charts libido and just can’t do without it? When you do fool around, what does it do for you? Besides for the obvious physical release you may experience, what else is there?

I tend to have this idealized point of view. Not only do I expect to see the moon and stars, but I also expect to gain a spiritual connection unparalleled by anything else on earth. It’s not just about the end result for me, although it is a bonus. I like to feel special. Esteemed, valued and cherished.

There are often discrepancies between men and women’s sex drives and needs. These often cause problems is relationships. Where do you find common ground? I’m not sure I know the answer. Media works against us. The way it looks on television and real life are very different. At times I wish I had the ability to turn it on at the drop of a hat.

Now don’t get me wrong, there are times when there is nothing else I’d rather do, but at times it’s the furthest thing from my mind. Is it okay to fake, or is this dishonest? I’d like to hear from you on this. A little girl talk.